Problems And Stress

looks so serious ha? like the tittle, problems and stress. well, who the hell in this world can avoid those two siblings?? no matter how old are you, actually, the older the bigger and more complicated it might be, and no matter where do you live even under a rock, you may face them! beware and watch out! im here to tell you a slightly bit about how i handling them. the technique is just a piece of cake if you just google. you will find a million results on how to handling stress. but, ikut keperluan diri sendiri. i follow my own rules ;)

1. PRETENDING
this is the best way to hide your problems. this include the smiling step. smiling is the best cure.

2. SPILL IT
if you have problems that thorns you inside, dont keet it for yourself. sure its the safest thing to do but silap hari bulan kau jadik gila sorang-sorang. hence, spill it. but make sure she/he is a good listener and a good secret keeper. dont tell the wrong guy.

its good to have someone there for you during arise and meltdown

3. KEEPING MYSELF BUSY
to temporarily forget the storm that we are going through. keeping busy with friend, family, work or any activities that can make you laugh!

4. AVOID MEETING THE PROBLEM
i mean, kalau tengah down gila tu, please try to avoid yourself from making yourself crushed even more. as an example, your boyfriend just dumping you. what most girls like to do is bukak kotak lama-lama keluarkan gambar kat air terjun yang dia bagi, baca surat cinta lama-lama sambil nangis-nangis, baca balik text dia yang sweet-sweet yang korang simpan dalam folder khas, stalk wall dia tengok ada pompuan lain ke tak, dengar lagu-lagu pastu cakap lagu ni ada kena-mengana dengan i! im trying avoiding this things. hey! i didn't get dump lah -__-

5. DISABLE FACEBOOK CHAT
i dont know what is the purpose of this method. maybe i just dont wanna get disturbed? i also didn't topup my phone whenever i got problems. yeah, i dont wanna get disturbed.

6. EATING
oh! the method that i loved the most! need i say more?

7. FACING IT BEBEH!
you must face the problem no matter what! you cannot run or hide from it. whenever you are ready to speak, solve it. cuma mati yang tak ada penyelesaian. neither its good nor bad, you must take a decision. once, the problem is solve, you no longer need the first method ;)

*baru perasan, every year blog appearance bertukar. siapa ingat lagi blog appearance yang masa mula-mula tahun first dia teror! new year, new blog :D